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Patti Mays: Posted on Monday, April 04, 2011 12:21 PM
Ahhh. . . Easter. My memories of Easter as a child drum up happy visions of spring, lilacs, colored eggs (real, not plastic), a fluffy pastel dress and white patent leather shoes for church, and of course - the magic of the Easter Bunny (who brought candy not knowing Mom didn't like us to have it. :> ) We repeated the same customs with our own daughter Natalie, and do you know that even today (she's 26 now) the Easter Bunny still remembers her! As with other holidays, the fun times together as a family, repeating traditions and establishing some of our own, created memories that we all cherish today. I look forward to repeating them yet again with our grandchildren someday in hopes that family traditions will be carried on for countless generations to come. Before we get to the fun and games, I've always done as my parents did, and that's to explain the day and why it's special. Being Christ-ians, Easter has a very significant meaning and, just as with Christ-mas, the celebrating can overtake the meaning if we don't make an effort to teach what it's all about. When children know the meaning of Easter (or any holiday), the traditions have much more meaning as well. FUN IDEAS for EASTER . . . * Take the time to dye REAL Easter eggs. Eggs are always on sale at Easter and the experience of coloring eggs together as a family will delight your children and remain in their fondest memories. As with any cooked eggs, they should be stored in the 'fridge and put out just temporarily for a centerpiece or decoration.
A couple of days after Easter, use the colored eggs to make a big batch of egg or potato salad. In our family that in itself has become a tradition - the "after Easter egg salad" is something we all look forward to. * EASTER EGG HUNTS. . . In this case it really does work better if you use plastic eggs. For one thing they don't break, pet dogs don't eat them (a big problem when our daughter was little), and they can be washed & reused year after year. Don't throw them away and buy new ones each year; it's such a needless waste, and you'll find that certain "favorite" eggs become cherished traditions in themselves, much like favorite Christmas ornaments. Fun! - Put treats inside some or all of the eggs to make them extra fun. Any wrapped candies, colorful jelly beans, ball gum (if age appropriate), small-sized candybars, candy stretch bracelets, M&Ms, or specialty Easter candies like chocolate bunnies. Try the Dollar Store! They have a huge assortment. - For non-candy fillers, use stickers (kids love 'em! Check out the scrapbook store), stretch bracelets, wash-off tattoo decals, whimsical socks, small stuffed animals, (remember those tiny toy baby chicks with the wire feet?); fun-shaped bath fizzies or soaps, magnets, small "transformers" - monster figures, tiny baby dolls, hero and princess figures.
- It's really fun to have one or more special eggs for the "big prize". Get the larger-sized eggs, fill with quarters or a couple dollar bills, movie tickets, bag of marbles or jacks, jumprope, disposable camera. Wrap the "special egg/s" in gold foil (or spray paint well in advance) and add an extra-special touch by winding a gold-star garland around the egg to make it a super duper prize. It looks so enchanting and kids LOVE this! What a thrill to discover the "golden egg" and it adds extra excitement to the easter egg hunt.
* EASTER BASKETS. . . The Easter Bunny is a magical tradition that kids absolutely cherish, just like Santa and the Tooth Fairy. Again, it's the effort you make more than the cost or amount of things inside the basket. When Natalie was little we put jelly beans and a few plastic eggs leading a path from her bedroom to wherever the Easter Bunny had left an Easter basket. It was the THRILL OF ALL THRILLS!
We used the cheapo woven baskets until she was about 10 and then we switched to "baskets" that were more useable, like a new lunch box, sand pail, bike helmet, cosmetic bag, baseball cap, terra cotta pot, etc.
* BASKET IDEAS FOR YOUNGER KIDS: Make a "filling" of cellophane grass, or shred paper bags, colorful construction paper, or old road maps (use your shredder!). Fill with candy, chocolate bunnies, plastic eggs - - the usual things kids love.
But it's such fun to be creative and add more useable treats too, like a variety of paintbrushes in bright colors, tubes of paint, rubber stamps & ink pads, markers, stuffed animals, bubbles with a giant wand, sunglasses, bath products & toys, squirt guns, kites, hand-held electronic games, books, tapes, CDs, puzzle books, sidewalk chalk.
Our daughter LOVED those "dehydrated wash cloths". They're about the size of a quarter until you put them in water and then they grow to regular-sized washcloths. MAGIC! * FOR OLDER KIDS: Think of what they can really use. Movie tickets, sunglasses & suntan products, beach towel, nail polish/cosmetics/aftershave, special shampoo, CDs & DVDs, jewelry, garden gloves & seed packets, gift cards (wrap in colorful cellophane!); favorite magazine w/ a subscription, cocoa & instant coffee mixes, baseball glove, stick-on fingernails, energy drinks, athletic socks, wallet or coin purse, neat water bottle, deck of cards, flashlight, key chain, flip-flops, t-shirts.
Have fun! Be involved! Take the time and the happy memories you create will remain with you and your children for years - maybe generations - to come. -P
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Patti Mays: Posted on Thursday, March 03, 2011 1:08 PM
I just wrote and published this article on the "Bizy Moms" website and want to share it with my readers who have kids and/or grandkids. It's about that all-important, never-ending question: WHAT SHOULD I DO TO ENTERTAIN THE KIDS? Well - - here are some ideas. When our daughter Natalie was little I just couldn't wait to introduce her to all our traditional American "special days", hoping to instill in her a love and respect for them just as my mother did for us. The small amount of effort required to celebrate these special occasions has paid off tenfold. The fun times we had together as a family, making our own traditions and repeating them each year - created memories for our daughter (and for us!) that we all still cherish and talk about today. For St. Patrick's Day: I remember so clearly when Natalie was VERY young and I was an inexperienced mom, I couldn’t think of one thing to do, other than to dress her in green. :> Over the years I came up with some more creative ideas which I'll share with you now. They're all easy - some more than others, but they're all fun and believe me when I tell you they will create lasting, wonderful memories for your children and for you. This is also a perfect time to throw in a little history lesson, too - who was St. Patrick and why do we celebrate this day? What is a shamrock, a leprechaun, and where on the world map is Ireland? Here are some fun ideas. . . * By all means, get a pair of shamrock socks! They're available by the gazillions and kids absolutely adore them. They're inexpensive, too, especially considering the delight they give children. If you get them out the night before, it sets the tone for the "big day" coming up. No matter what your child is wearing that day, special-occasion socks are a hoot, and kids just love 'em. Get a pair for yourself too! They're so fun with jeans or slacks, and your children love to see you doing what they do. * Get some gold-wrapped chocolate coins "from the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow". Put several in clear cellophane "packets" or bags and tie with green ribbon. Then place at each place setting, in school lunches, under a pillow, or slip into a coat pocket. They're also TERRIFIC when placed together on a big silver tray or large platter. (I did this for a birthday party one time and what a hit! I took the tray around and let each party guest pick one of the "gold packets". They were all the same, of course, but the impact of a large amount all together made a big splash, and the kids really thought they were "getting something" :>
Gold-wrapped chocolate coins in clear cellophane look especially enchanting because they're so sparkly. I use them for lots of celebrations, not just St. Patrick's Day, because they're inexpensive, easy to find (check party stores) and kids love 'em. If you can't get gold chocolate coins, use green jelly beans or M&Ms. * You can do a lot with good ol' green food coloring. Make green scrambled eggs for breakfast and serve with bagels and green cream cheese. Kids think specially-colored foods are the neatest thing ever, and it couldn't be easier to do. Other foods that take well to food coloring are mashed potatoes, rice, pizza or bread dough, mayonnaise, applesauce, frosting, and milk. But - word of warning - don’t try tinting butter. It doesn't work, trust me (I speak from experience . . . what a gooey mess). * Serve pistachio pudding, lime or rainbow sherbet or green-frosted cupcakes. And don't forget the tried & true green jello jigglers. Kids love those even if we adults think they're old fashioned. * For cakes, cupcakes or sugar cookies, frost with white or light-colored frosting and then make a St.Patrick's design for the top. To do this, draw a shamrock, rainbow, top hat or even your child's initials - then cut out the center to make a stencil. Hold it over the frosted cupcake and sprinkle green candy sprinkles to form the design. Kids love this! * Make a traditional Irish dinner of corned beef & cabbage! If you make it the right way, it's absolutely delicious and very hearty. Serve with soda bread, another Irish favorite, or if that's not convenient, regular biscuits are also delicious. * Sprinkle a few (just a few!) sparkly shamrocks on the tablecloth, in school lunches, or on your child's pillow. These can be a total pain to clean up, so don't go overboard, but kids are delighted with them. To make things especially magical, be excited over the fact that a leprechaun or Irish Fairy must have come to visit and left some "pixie dust". * Make a "Lucky Leprechaun Snack Tray". Cut the top off a large green pepper and hollow it out. This makes a shamrock-shaped "bowl"! Then fill it with your favorite creamy dip, put it on a large platter surrounded by GREEN ONLY vegies: celery, cucumbers, cabbage, snap peas, broccoli ("tiny trees") and asparagus spears. (Tip: It helps a TON if you parboil the tough stuff like broccoli, asparagus & fresh green beans for 2-3 minutes so they won't be so hard to chew. Plunge in cold water after parboiling to stop the cooking process. This makes them a delicious crisp-tender and also turns vegies a beautiful bright green color).
Add a little sparkle to the plate with some gold-wrapped chocolate coins tucked among the vegies. With this kind of a display you'll be surprised at how much your kids like eating vegies! The whole point here is to just do something different. It doesn't have to be expensive, it just takes a little time, but that time will be remembered all your child's life. These things are what create a "happy childhood" in kids' memories. And isn't that what we all want as parents and grandparents? HAVE FUN! -P
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